Searching for the babyI gave up for Adoption

This is a collection of posts written here that tell the story of my search for my son, Max. whom I placed for Adoption when he was a newborn. People ask me all the time, and really, the whole story is so long and it is here and I am lazy.

Plus it reads better in order.

And for those who wonder what happened to Max's Father and if I ever told him, I did and it was the End of Procrastination:  And then, oddly enough, the only contact I have had with him was a year later:  Running into a Birthfather.
And no, to answer that last question, to date, 9-2010, Max and his father have not met. I would like them too, but.. it hasn't not happened yet.

oh and this is it in a condensed movie, if you think that the books are not usually better!

6 comments:

  1. Oh Claudia ((((((((((hugs))))))))))
    I am so very happy for you that you did reunite with Max.
    Do you see him often ?
    Does he know his father ?
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  2. i, too, am a "birth" mother. i have been reunited with my son for 4 years now. the bond is so strong between mother and child, i had no idea. i was curious as to how long you have been reunited? how do the adoptive parents treat you? do you have regrets for placing? i do. my goal in life...bring awareness to all the effects of adoption. it is not the way to go. all a baby needs ...their orginal mothers love. no matter how disfunctional you may think your life is, your disfunctional life is far more better than being rejected (in the name of love)and feeling you are all alone not having your mothers face to identify in this world helping you feel safe and loveable.
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  3. I am an adoptive mom and I think this is BEAUTIFUL!!! It brought me to tears!!!
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  4. I love your video. So glad you and your son are together.
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  5. Thank you, Keri Stone. I am an adoptee and I couldn't agree with you more.
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  6. Thank you all for sharing your inner most thoughts and feelings ... I have been searching for my birthmother for 30 years to no avail.
    I like reading what other birthmothers have to say (maybe mine has similar thoughts!)
    Wishing all a happy and healthy new year!
    Alex
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