This is a collection of posts written here that tell the story of my search for my son, Max. whom I placed for Adoption when he was a newborn. People ask me all the time, and really, the whole story is so long and it is here and I am lazy. Plus it reads better in order. Getting on Board A Brief History of My Life on the Adoption Boards A Tribute to the Ladies..finding Max I The Search Contact. And then wait some more.... To continue..the Search for Max The End of Exile More on Max... Making it Current The End of Procrastination. Oh this apple.. 19 years 111 days! Ready or not..it's time! Twenty five miles away... Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......bliss More pictures!! Just more. So I Really HAVE been busy! Re-knitting Relationships: growth in adoption reun... Re-knitting Relationships: growth in adoption reun... oh and this is it in a condensed movie, if you think that the books are not usually better!
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- Claudia Corrigan D'Arcy
- Kingston, New York, United States
- Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy is freelance writer, adoption activist, professional blogger, and, most life shattering, a mother who lost her oldest son to adoption in 1987.
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I named Max after the main charcter in this book. It is the theme to my adoption experience. My name, Claudia, means Lame. I muse outloud. Get it.
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3 comments:
Oh Claudia ((((((((((hugs))))))))))
I am so very happy for you that you did reunite with Max.
Do you see him often ?
Does he know his father ?
i, too, am a "birth" mother. i have been reunited with my son for 4 years now. the bond is so strong between mother and child, i had no idea. i was curious as to how long you have been reunited? how do the adoptive parents treat you? do you have regrets for placing? i do. my goal in life...bring awareness to all the effects of adoption. it is not the way to go. all a baby needs ...their orginal mothers love. no matter how disfunctional you may think your life is, your disfunctional life is far more better than being rejected (in the name of love)and feeling you are all alone not having your mothers face to identify in this world helping you feel safe and loveable.
I am an adoptive mom and I think this is BEAUTIFUL!!! It brought me to tears!!!
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